I had a stroke last July 2022. When this happened my ex partner changed and refused to accept I had had a stroke and said he wouldn’t be able to look after me because he couldn’t deal with illnesses or the fact he had to look after me for the rest of his life. I was so upset 
he was continuously arguing or moaning at me. He assaulted me so I had to get the police. He has since walked out on me thank goodness. I am such a kind caring person myself I am still struggling with how someone can be so cruel, selfish and uncaring towards another human being in the time of need especially from a so called loved on. I am very upset, fatigued, depressed and lonely now. Life is so unfair. I struggle with the fact I have had a stroke as it is. I have friends but no family. Any suggestions how to move on?
@Chanti Hi Diana whilst you may feel lonely and upset now your partner has left, you definitely don’t need someone in your life who can emotionally and physically abuse you.
It’s good you’ve got a supportive network of caring friends around you,
As for moving on, you don’t mention how mobile you are or whether you’ve returned to work. Try joining a support group or going out for lunch/coffee with friends. There’s a couple of online support/chat groups you could try out.
Best wishes and big hugs, stay strong and chat to us here, if you’re feeling lonely.
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@Chanti i know you are feeling upset & lovely right now but you really don’t need someone like that around you in your time of need.
As @Mahoney has said maybe see if there is a support group in your area or go out with yiur friends for coffee. Not sure how affected you are but could you try volunteeting ? I always got so much out of volunteering.
We’re here too if you need to reach out. The Stroke Association do a here for you service too. Might be worth looking in to.
Sending my best wishes.
Ann x
Well she didn’t say that clearly cause by me having Deliuxes wert switched my words in my head I am forgive Pastor Smith
That’s very sad but you’ll get through this and come out the other end a much stronger person. Be sad, for now, then come out fighting! you can do this.
I understand cause lost my major stroke in 1992
I lost my wife to cancer and six months later i had my stroke still don’t know if it was stress or grief, still struggling one handed due to spasticity my local stroke servivers club does help with like minded people.
I am truly sorry feeling your pain i learn got grief in own way
As @Mrs5K said, the Here for You calls may help because Lisa & Emma & team pair you with someone who has similar experiences.
It’s 8 weeks of ½ hr a week calls with no agenda other than to listen, help, support.
The helpline (
03033033100) can also help
Also there are local support groups listed in the post Support groups