Hi all - I have just joined the Forum as Mum had a major stroke in early June and am looking for advice / to find out more from others. Mum is paralysed on her right hand side, incontenent and has normal memory issues. As a family, we have no idea whether there is any chance that she could get some movement back over time and whether incontenence can improve over time (Tom Balchins book implies that incontenence can sort itself out...) - or - if nothing has happened after three months this is unlikely. Would love to hear from people who have a similar experience just to start learning more and knowing what we can do to help / expect - where to go to learn more. There are no videos about paralysis and physio on this website which seems odd. We found Mum a physio who has just started working with her and I will obv ask her these questions. Would also be interested to find out how people have found the NHS / care system - as to date has been very confusing (whole new world of acronyms) and is clearly underfunded (something was aware of but not aware of how bad it really is...). Getting NHS physio has taken two months.....Massive thank you to anyone out there who can advise / share. Take care all.