Hi, it’s been a while since I’ve posted so thought I’d share an update and see if you lovely people out there can offer some words of encouragement!
It’s been almost 4 months since my Mum (75) had a haemorrhagic stroke and it’s coming up to 10 weeks since she was discharged from hospital. She’s at home with Dad and after a tough few weeks initially, things have settled down a bit now and they have a bit of routine - albeit a very mundane one. Her pain management seems to be a lot better than it was in hospital and she’s finally been assessed by the Bladder & Bowel team and has better pads for managing the double incontinence.
She has a PEG fitted, although is able to eat pureed food (if she wants it) and sips of water. All her medication has to be given via the PEG.
But perhaps the biggest thing is her mobility. Both her left arm & leg are affected, she can’t weight-bare and the carers have to hoist her from bed to chair. She does have a mini-lifter as well & the physios are hoping to start getting the carers to use this for transfers soon so she gets more opportunities to be on her feet. She also has hemianopia which is going to affect her balance.
The one thing the stroke hasn’t affected is her communication and understanding. She’s fully aware of everything and I think that’s what makes it all the more difficult to deal with. She’s embarrassed at needing so much support and feels like a burden to everyone. She’s suffered from low mood since being in hospital - it’s why she was discharged early - and is on anti-depressants. She just wants to get some mobility back so she’s less helpless.
The physio sessions have slowed down now - did come more or less every day for the first 6 weeks. We know recovery is painfully slow so we’re not expecting miracles anytime soon but I guess I’m just looking for hope that things can improve given time and perseverance?