My mother has had two strokes, first in 2015 and the second this year 2018, unlike the first stroke which she was able to recover really well from this recent stroke affected her speech greatly, also cognition issues. I found since this stroke as it was the damaging has made her a shell of her former self, she struggles to believe she will ever speak again. I feel she has made progress, she has had a certain amount of help from speech therapists, I keep telling her she has and that she needs to believe in herself but she has gone into a depression which I am struggling to bring her out of, I find she is easily reduced to tears and one morning she stood in the bathroom in tears and when I finally got it out of her what has upset her she heartbreakingly said "I can't speak! I can't speak!". My dad has also sunk into a depression, he wants he's wife back but he feels he's lost her, they are due to be celerating 50 years the end of this month but he doesn't feel happy about it he just feels unhappy and frustrated, it's really sad to see him like this.
I would just love to receive any support, help, advice, info, anything would be greatly appreciated. I am a mum to a 2 year old carer to both parents it ain't easy dividing my time but I don't want my mum feeling left out like I can't do anything for her, I really want to help my mum get back to herself again. I love her to bits and am desperately sad to see her in such a state of sadness and loss.
Thank you ![smiley|23x23](upload://641vKFSSPapIadavqg4sCihxmaQ.png "smiley")